Thursday, October 2, 2008

Donations in her honor

In honor of Julia, we would like to donate a bookcase in the NICU unit at Greenwich Hospital. This bookcase will include books for the parents of babies in the NICU to help them with their infants. A plaque will be on the bookcase with an inscription indicating that it is donated in memory of Julia.

If you are interested in donating, please make your check out to Greenwich Hospital. In the note on the check, please indicate “IMO Julia Russo/NICU”.

Please send your check to:
Greenwich Hospital Development Office
Attention Marita O’Hare
89 Lake Avenue
Greenwich, CT 06830

Any amount will be appreciated. Even if you can only afford to donate $5, $10 or $20, every little bit helps!

Thank you for helping us to honor the memory or our daughter.

Love,
Amie and Chris
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Thank you!

I would like to take a moment to thank all of our friends and family who have stuck by me and Chris through this terrible tragedy. No matter how we have chosen to deal with this , there have been some wonderful people in our lives that have stuck by us no matter what. To those people, we are eternally grateful and feel so lucky to have you in our lives.
I know that there have been a lot of people who have not agreed with the many difficult decisions we have had to make surrounding Julia's passing, or have been angry that they were not included in our grieving process. I can only say that we are truly sorry if we have hurt you in any way. I can only hope that you will eventually understand that we have been through the most difficult nightmare of our lives and have had to focus a lot of energy on trying to just be OK. We made the personal decisions that we made in order to get through it as quickly and as easily as we possibly could. I hope that one day you can understand our position and let go of your anger because you love us and because we love you back.
Amie

Song for Julia

Immortality

Celine Dion and The Bee Gees


My Wish List

~I wish my child hadn't died. I wish I had her back.
~I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my child's name. My child lived and was very important to me. I need to hear that she was important to you as well.
~If I cry and get emotional when you talk about my child, I wish you knew that it isn't because you have hurt me. My child's death is the cause of my tears. You have talked about my child, and you have allowed me to share my grief. I thank you for both.
~I wish you wouldn't shy away from me. I need you more than ever.
~I wish you would let me talk about my child, my favorite topic of the day.
~I know that you think of and pray for me often. I also know that my child's death pains you, too. I wish you would let me know things through a phone call, a card or a note, or a really big hug.
~I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in six months. These first months are traumatic for me, but I wish you could understand that my grief will never be over. I will suffer the death of my child until the day I die.
~I wish you could understand that I will never fully recover. I will always miss my child, and I will always grieve that she is dead.
~I wish you wouldn't expect me "not to think about it" or to "be happy". Neither will happen for a very long time, so don't frustrate yourself.
~I wish you would let me grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.
~I wish you understood how my life has shattered. I know it is miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling miserable. ~Please be as patient with me as I am with you.
~I wish you could understand when I say, "I'm doing okay," that I don't feel okay and that I struggle daily.
~I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are all to be expected. So please excuse me when I'm quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.
~I wish you understood that grief changes people. When my child died, a big part of me died with her. I am not the same person I was before my child died, and I will never be that person again.
~I wish very much that you could understand - understand my loss and my grief, my silence and my tears, my void and my pain. But I pray daily that you will never understand.